Why Do I Buy Things That I Don't Wear?
"Why do you buy so many cute things that you don't wear??".....I asked myself that question while folding my fourth pair of bell bottom pants. I am guilty of shopping, shopping, and shopping, and not really ever wearing what I buy. I have really cute stuff in my closet! From thrift stores, from boutiques, from the ladies clothing sale page on Facebook, yet for some reason I just never really feel compelled to wear a majority of what I have.
I love online shopping and checking out the latest trends, hunting down coupon codes like a man on a mission and excitedly awaiting the arrival of my new goods, then when they arrive I rock them for a day or two, and I get back to my casual style of sweatpants and leggings and tees. I wonder if I find it too difficult to put clothes on, like maybe in my subconscious pulling on a pair of jeans just takes so much effort that I could use elsewhere, or wearing a skirt when its in the low 70s is too much of a chilly risk so I just don't feel like doing it.
It just feels so odd because I LOVE clothes. I mean, I have a whole blog where I talk about how much I love clothes and shoes etc, but honestly most of my pieces sit in drawers and closets and come out when I feel like it. There it is....when I feel like it. I dress up when I feel like it, and when i'm in school mode, comfy sweats and long sleeves are right up my alley. I do want to make more of an effort to be more presentable just for myself, because when I go to places off campus or out with friends/partners, I enjoy getting dressed up even if its a very simple outfit.
I almost want to put myself on a shopping ban until I figure out what to do with everything else that's in my beloved closet and dressers. Part of me wants to donate 3/4 of my clothes and just work with smaller pieces till I figure it out. I do believe i've narrowed down my aesthetic: t-shirts, flowy shirts, bell bottom pants, jeans, boots, sneakers (oh I love sneakers!!!), and flowy sweaters; then for going out I love tight-fitting fun dresses and high boots. Otherwise, I just like being comfortable.
During a recent study break, I stumbled upon British Vogue's tour of Camille Rowe's closet and literally squealed because everything she was saying/showing in her closet is ME. Like hello, soul sister. Now I don't feel so bad for wanting to stick to tees and denim a la cool Vogue girl ;)
Check out more of Camille's style below & follow me for updates on how my closet-crisis is going and just incase I decide to actually wear my clothes.
I sometimes over purchase clothes as well!!
ReplyDeleteI feel like having versatile clothes is really the key, clothes that you can mix and match and create different looks using the same piece :)
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I also met Camilla by that video last year I believed, and I completely fell for her! I think she´s funny, humble, and the half french me loves her half french hahaaha. I also used to buy a tun of clothes that Ive never got the chance to wear. Most of them wait in my closet, with the tag still on, for their turn. So this summer I decided I wanted to pay attention to what I usually wears: skinny jeans, mostly,and oversize pieces as the up part of the look. It has been a tough journey cutting off the amount of time that I spent buying things on sale and finding the best deals. But believe me, its worth it and I fell happier now!
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Guilty! Great post
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